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The Beautiful Woman Syndrome: What is it? How does it affect them? How does it affect you? The beautiful woman syndrome will affect most men who pursue gorgeous women. However, most men won't recognize the symptoms of the beautiful woman syndrome, nor will they know how to effectively deal with it. Do you? Find out on www.bwsyndrome.com |
A few of the sexual inventions
by Dr. Kevin Pezzi I will upload descriptions and pictures of some of these inventions in the near future. As a physician, I am particularly enthused by the ones that reduce STD transmission while maintaining or even increasing sexual pleasure (since diminished pleasure is one of the primary reasons why the old standbys are often not used). Of course, I have several inventions that are purely for fun, including ones that can improve on what nature gave you. You might desire such an improvement "just because," or you might need it to keep your partner happy. Relationships end for a variety of reasons, but sexual disappointment is one of the foremost reasons. Although our culture gives lip service to being open about sexuality, and superficial sexuality is everywhere (ads, television, book and magazine covers, you name it), we're often very reluctant to freely discuss sexual disappointment with our partners. Perhaps people assume that nothing can be done for their shortcomings (this is obviously not true, as you know if you've read my book). After countless discussions with my patients and friends, I know that sexually disappointed people often "solve" their problem by dumping their partner and finding a new one. In an attempt to protect people's feelings, the media almost never address some of the underlying reasons why people are dissatisfied, especially in regard to disappointed men. For example, I subscribed to Cosmopolitan magazine (which is clearly targeted for a female audience) for years to see if the messages sent to women by the media are even remotely similar to the grumbling and dissatisfaction I hear from men as justification for dumping their girlfriends or wives. One of the commonest physical complaints voiced by men is vaginal laxity, which usually results from vaginal childbirth but may even be present in nulliparous women. Yet in reading Cosmo, I never read a discussion of loose vaginas. Are they really doing their readers a favor by sheltering women from this subject? Some men prefer blondes, while other prefer brunettes or redheads. Some men like large breasts, while other like them medium or small. Some men like tall women, and some men like 'em short. Some men prefer slim women, while others like women with extra padding. Men's preferences in women are quite varied, except for one thing: almost universally, men like women with tight vaginas. So if Cosmo truly wanted to help their readers, why not give women effective techniques to tighten vaginas? (The oft-given advice to do "three sets of 10 Kegel exercises" is nonsense and shows that anyone espousing such an inadequate regimen is physiologically ignorant.) In The Science of Sex, I discuss several ways to tighten the vagina, going way beyond the basics such as Kegel exercises. So why can't Cosmo and other magazines of that ilk do the same? They are not doing their readers any favors by ignoring the subject — men surely aren't! There are likely many reasons that explain why magazines like Cosmopolitan are so reticent on this and related matters. Perhaps they do not wish to risk alienating their readers, thinking that it is preferable to gloss over problems, even if doing so results in a bigger problem, like being dumped (after all, that would never be blamed on the magazine). Or perhaps their editors live in worlds that are too insular. That's one thing you could never say about me. As a former ER doctor, I heard and saw just about everything imaginable, including the collateral damage that results when women are dumped. While there are surely many reasons for this, the percentage that stem from sexual dissatisfaction isn't zero, or even close to it. So why not address this and other potential problems in advance? Sweeping problems under the rug may be good for magazines, but not for their readers. In recent years, we've seen some major strides in frank discussions of male problems such as impotence (you've never seen a Viagra ad, have you?), but imagine that there was a drug that tightened the vagina. Would we ever see this advertised? Would we ever see female sports stars with loose vaginas become spokeswomen for the drug? Never in a million years! So why doesn't anyone bat an eye when sports stars or washed-up politicians with impotence become spokesmen for Viagra? Click here to bookmark this site
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